Galentine's Day: Saturday, February 13, 2027

A letter for your best gals

Galentine's Day is for the women friends who've been there through everything. Tell her what she means to you, in a letter she can keep.

An example

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These are the kinds of things you’d tell us. We suggest a letter in seconds, and you change anything you like.

  • thrift store runs, terrible reality TV, karaoke
  • opened her own bakery this year
  • loyal, hilarious, brutally honest about haircuts
  • assigned lab partners in tenth grade chemistry, and laughed so hard we got split up
  • we can go months without talking and pick up mid-sentence

Made-up people and details. Written with Incredible Letters.

Dear Maya,

Happy Galentine's Day! Consider this the letter version of me grabbing your arm across a brunch table and saying, "Okay, I need you to know something."

Here it is: I am so proud of you. You opened your own bakery this year. Your own bakery! I think about that and get a little giddy every time. You took something you love and built a real place out of it, with your name on it and everything. I hope you let yourself feel how big that is, even on the flour-covered, exhausted days.

I also want to say thank you for being exactly who you are. You are loyal down to your bones. You are one of the funniest people I know. And you are brutally honest about haircuts, which I mean as a compliment, because when you tell me something looks good, I believe it completely. Everyone deserves a friend who will tell them the truth and then still drive them to karaoke.

Speaking of which, I love our thrift store runs, our terrible reality TV, and every off-key song we have ever belted out together. Nobody else can make a bad show and a bin of mystery sweaters feel like such an event.

It all goes back to tenth grade chemistry, when we were assigned as lab partners and laughed so hard they had to split us up. Honestly, I think that was the best experiment we ever ran. It still works. We can go months without talking and then pick up mid-sentence, as if no time passed. That is the safest, coziest feeling I know, like walking into a warm kitchen where the light is always on and someone has saved you a seat.

Whatever comes next for the bakery and for you, I will be cheering the loudest from the front row. Keep a stool at the counter for me.

You are my person, Maya, and I am so glad you are my friend. Thank you for being exactly you.

Love, Dani

Not sure what to say? Try…

  • How you became friends
  • The time she showed up when you needed her
  • An inside joke only the two of you get

About the day

Galentine's Day is February 13, the day before Valentine's Day. It started on the TV show Parks and Recreation in 2010, when Leslie Knope gathered her women friends for breakfast to celebrate them, and people liked the idea enough to make it real.

It isn't about romance. It's a day for the friends, sisters and moms who've cheered you on, talked you down and shown up with snacks. A letter fits: it says what brunch small talk doesn't, and she can keep it.

Parks and Recreation is an NBC show. Incredible Letters isn't affiliated with NBC.

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